Sunday, May 18, 2008
Chapter 1: Define love....
(1): strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties
(2): attraction based on sexual desire
(3): affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests
These are just afew of the definations that i've quoted from Websters.
So.... what does one mean when he/she uses the word "love"?
The answer here would be rather vague. No one is sure.
Hmmmmm..... you must be wondering why i started out my post with the above. Well, the answer is simple. I'm wondering.... what it actually means when someone actually mentions the 'i love you' to me. Or, does it even mean a thing in the first place. Or maybe it does... but.... others interpretation may be different.
I'm trying to figure out... how possible could it be that one says 'i love you' for that moment, but a second later, the phrase is just obsolete. Or one can just say the 'i love you' at that particular moment in time just to please and 'assure' the other party. My major qns here is... What happen to the feelings involved when one actually makes that declaration of love? Have they actually forgotten that words without expression is null. A whole quantity of no importance. How i wish one day an invention just like the lie detector can be created... just to detect if someone actually means it when he/she say the 'i love you'. With that.... i believe the world will be a happier place.
Okay... the next statement i'm about to state here may sound gender bias. But i'm just stating the fact.
Guys... you know girls always mention that they can never trust a guy when he says 'i love you'. Well.... girls, let me just ask you back. How much can the guys actually trust you when you say the 'i love you'. Yeah... girls are always seen as the sensitive, loving, sweet lil one. But that does not mean they can't lie. Am i right or am i wrong to say that? From my experience.... well, maybe its just my luck... I'm always the one being hurt.
Moving on.... since we're talking about trust. I do understand that trust has to be gained. Thats one point. But then again... Bottom line, doesnt it all fall down to the person rendering that trust. So what if one does all that he/she can to earn the trust but trust is still not entrusted upon him/her.
I believe i've made my statement here clear...
Love is so very unclear. No one can actually predict its course. You'll never know if that love is true.
Love is all about trusting.... However never ask someone to earn your trust when you're not gonna render it.
p.s This is just the beginning... Chapter 2 awaits
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